Sexuality

Sex, desire, eros, libido and kink

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Trusted voices in Sexuality

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  1. eigenrobot — trusted by 111 posters here
  2. goblinodds — trusted by 112 posters here
  3. visakanv — trusted by 127 posters here
  4. QiaochuYuan — trusted by 119 posters here
  5. univrsw3th4rt — trusted by 88 posters here
  6. bashu_thanks — trusted by 104 posters here
  7. myhandle — trusted by 92 posters here
  8. vividvoid — trusted by 100 posters here
  9. AskYatharth — trusted by 90 posters here
  10. tasshinfogleman — trusted by 93 posters here
  11. nosilverv — trusted by 104 posters here
  12. strangestloop — trusted by 97 posters here

Top posts in Sexuality

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  1. you ever just wake up and start thinking about the reddit guy with the insane clown fetish who just 100% made his wildest dreams come true by poasting? what a champion https://t.co/vNAME8aYlX (QiaochuYuan) — 42 likes
  2. *taps mic* people wanna be fuckable more than they wanna fuck (visakanv) — 38 likes
  3. I literally cannot get over this lol Man dedicates life to knowledge management Figures out 'source of power is in the groin' Pivots to sexuality What an arc (nosilverv) — 36 likes
  4. she “let” me hit it bc she assumes constant pressurized desire from my end, as a man, and she simply controls a valve that allows me to rush in to flood her like a hot bath. she’s right but i resent… (bashu_thanks) — 35 likes
  5. hot take: virgins cant meaningfully consent to sex (goblinodds) — 31 likes
  6. fucking is labor, fuckability is capital (visakanv) — 27 likes
  7. i asked my hotness consultant if she could make people desire me and she said yes but once i became hot i realized everyone around me was suffering so i went and asked her why and she said desire… (vividvoid) — 27 likes
  8. i really don't know if i'm gonna be able to get back to everyone but you guys are incredible and i'm very grateful for your warmth and kindness, thank you, really 🥲 https://t.co/KcnuZzAeCu (QiaochuYuan) — 26 likes
  9. BDSM references hit different ever since i accidentally went to a sex dungeon and learned that the venn diagram of "people who are into kink" and "people who are into LARPing and board game nights"… (goblinodds) — 25 likes
  10. it drives me a little insane every time people talk about sex as if it's a substance that men extract vampirically from women (QiaochuYuan) — 25 likes
  11. one day i would like to experience sexual desire as something other than a crime (QiaochuYuan) — 25 likes
  12. "body count" "ran thru" bro she forgot abt all these guys long ago bro she's ready to be a wife the only thing these guys are running thru is your mind bro it's literally your brainworms (myhandle) — 24 likes
  13. yoga instructor: breathe into downward dog and remember that it's a felony to ogle the sexy women here *i'm sweating* instructor: hey sweaty. is that from the pose or are you about to do crimes? me:… (strangestloop) — 23 likes
  14. if you’re sufficiently charismatic, people who are attracted to you will thirst over specific “ordinary” features - even body parts - in ways that they wouldn’t when someone else without that… (visakanv) — 23 likes
  15. well great, now i want to fuck the anime version of all my mutuals (natural_hazard) — 23 likes
  16. More than anything, spiritual sex scandals just strike me as pathetic You're telling me you've got the self mastery to peer into the secrets of consciousness itself, but you can't resist the clumsy… (vividvoid) — 23 likes
  17. horny on main imposes true discipline on a man you can't get away with horny if you're creepy, sad, angry, dishonest, etc. every stain on your reputation is magnified tenfold by it any big account… (myhandle) — 22 likes
  18. probably will regret posting this on main, but I was just talking with the boys, and the results are in: everyone wishes they could get specific and detailed instructions when going down on their… (bashu_thanks) — 22 likes
  19. there is a noticeable shift in someone’s voice when they are well fucked (christineist) — 22 likes
  20. I don't know who needs to hear this but it's completely normal and fine to be a bit fucked up about sex (RichDecibels) — 22 likes
  21. I am once again asking y’all to watch this guy go from like a 5 to a 9 in sex appeal in seconds https://t.co/dOPKyFyI7m (visakanv) — 21 likes
  22. We did have one though. Two good-with-boundaries people reported him and it was the easiest case I’d ever dealt with. Connect with your body and self! Honor your self with self-worth! Say no even if… (frideswyth) — 21 likes
  23. I feel like a big unspoken relationship preference is whether you feel satisfied dating somebody whose life-arc, trials, and tribulations all culminate in the crowning achievement of getting to have… (bashu_thanks) — 21 likes
  24. My female friend re: porn: “Porn is bad. It like makes young men associate sexual gratification with aloneness, the digital world, and safety/certainty. When the healthy association is more like… (TylerAlterman) — 21 likes
  25. This one time I was at an LGBTQ party and a guy flirted with me. I feel flattered still now by his directness, his instant and total desire: the moment he entered the club and spotted me, he… (ElodesNL) — 20 likes
  26. when ur friends are posting thirst traps and if u dont like their pics it means u hate them and think they're ugly but if u do like their pics it means u want to bone them (goblinodds) — 20 likes
  27. unprotected sex can lead to a lot of paperwork (visakanv) — 20 likes
  28. life is too short to pretend you're not turned on by some bizarre things (bashu_thanks) — 20 likes
  29. oh, i see. societies evolved taboos and rituals around sex, not because they were a morally inferior, irrational species, but because sex routinely fucked social relations up, and the cultures that… (AskYatharth) — 20 likes
  30. so last year i quit porn and masturbation for 5 months. it’s doable, easier with social support, well worth it even if it isn’t permanent. i don’t think of the goal as being to quit permanently but… (QiaochuYuan) — 20 likes
  31. It is wild how much skin there is and how much u can rub it on other people's skin . Most people v unimaginative in this pursuit though and only rub the popular spots. If yr really a skin enthusiast… (bashu_thanks) — 20 likes
  32. There's no real bisexual identity or community because bisexuality is the negation of sexual identity. It is pluripotent sexuality, uncollapsed into dualistic ideosexual structure. Exhibit A: a… (vividvoid) — 19 likes
  33. confessions of love/attraction are the most intense moments, full body flush, nervous system at high pitch careening into the ocean (christineist) — 19 likes
  34. sex is for beginners underneath sexual lust is the desire for intimacy, expression, aliveness a tantrika is getting fucked by the universe with every single breath a life well-lived is a work of art… (octopusyarn) — 19 likes
  35. if casual sex is bad that just means you need to get better at it by doing it 100 times (exactlynora) — 18 likes
  36. what men think i want in bed: to be given an orgasm, a giant [redacted], lasting a long timewhat i actually want in bed: everyone involved to feel safe n comfortable, only doing what they rly want… (univrsw3th4rt) — 18 likes
  37. maybe people want to be fuckable more than they want to fuck but the obverse is that they want to be admired more than they want to be admirable (eigenrobot) — 18 likes
  38. gf: tuck me in? 🥺 bf: ok gf: yeah nice and tight just like a burrito bf: my little burrito *forehead kiss* gf: how did that taste bf: what gf: make me extra tasty *gf gestures with eyes to the… (strangestloop) — 18 likes
  39. hey look I just published the most vulnerable thing I have ever put on the internet, a story about sex & sensuality & psychedelics please be gentle in the replies 🙏 xox link below (RichDecibels) — 18 likes
  40. she letcha hit it cuz you’re in alignment w the Dao, we call that gettin waylaid (the_wilderless) — 18 likes
  41. stopped drinking, stopped smoking, started lifting again, libido kicked on again full forcesitting on sofa tonight, apropos of nothing, i hallucinated the scent of a woman and had to put down the… (BLUNDERBUSSTED) — 18 likes
  42. i feel like it's weird, unnatural, unhealthy that by default we don't really see others having sex, that we hide sex away & make it private. i think it would be healthier to have more… (tasshinfogleman) — 18 likes
  43. amicable breakups be like "oh nooo i forgot to show him my tiddies one last time for the road *sobbing*" (goblinodds) — 17 likes
  44. i was so concentrated on being fuckable that i forgot to fuck (myceliummage) — 17 likes
  45. commentary on sex positivity https://t.co/vl1rjhIENm (eigenrobot) — 17 likes
  46. there are two parts or aspects of myself i am actively working to integrate, darkness and sexuality (tasshinfogleman) — 17 likes
  47. Being slutty is so common it doesn’t feel slutty at all anymore, or dashing or daring or rebellious or provocative in the least. You know what’s really transgressive? Talking about your relationship… (nosilverv) — 17 likes
  48. @strangestloop feeling beautiful, getting dressed up, dancing at an EDM festival as a woman, feeling my boobs bouncing as i move, feeling my own boobs, feeling men's eyes on me, being under a man i… (tasshinfogleman) — 17 likes
  49. if I'm honest it's pretty hard to distinguish my desire to sleep with someone I'm attracted to from my desire to establish my place in the pecking order (RichDecibels) — 17 likes
  50. embodying offering sex and dates as an act of generosity instead of craving them as a hungry ghost (s0ulDirect0r) — 17 likes

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